針對Tiff(碰碰)為什麼突然不想上每星期一次的奧福音樂課
我也在Parents.com網路上與美國媽媽討論
以下是她們的經驗與建議:

看來 碰碰這樣的情形 舉世皆有呢
一定要想辦法克服...

Re: preschool charm?

Posted: Sep 23, 2005 9:28 AM

my son hates going to the sitters house. i tell him that he needs a reason why he doesn't want to go there. since he can't tell me a reason, he has to keep going. if he gives me a reason, and it's a good one, i'll pull him out, i think the sitter is fine. she has a very deep voice and made him potty train. i know it's not the same thing, but maybe you could tell her that until she has a reason for not wanting to go anymore she goes. or you could tell her if she really wants to, she can quit, but that there is no going back if she quits. sorry mom.
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Posted: Sep 24, 2005 12:42 AM

My dd is going through this as well. She just started ps/dance/gymnastics two weeks agao and has had a tough time adjusting (even though she did all this last year). There have been quite a few changes though -- all new kids to contend with, and her best friend from last year is in nothing this year. My dd is not very adaptable to change and has had some real anxiety before the classes, tearing, crying as well, and every time she has some excuse as to why she didn't want to go. We have persevered and she is doing much better this week.

I have noticed with my dd that she is quick to form opinions i.e. if she doesn't like the first day or if it is not as she perceived it would be, then she immediately decides she doesn't like it and doesn't want to try it again. However, by persevering we have noticed that she's realizing she needs to keep going and she's starting to relax more and just have fun.

My dd became very dependant on her best friend last year, to the point that if she missed a class becasue she was sick, then my dd also wanted to stay home. We have been trying to talk to her about the importance of meeting new friends and having more than one friend -- maybe try that approach with her music class as well.

Best of luck,
Paula
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她們大體上還是建議我繼續帶她去上課
除非她講出合理不去的理由
如果堅持不去
要讓她清楚知道
放棄了就沒有機會再走回頭路

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